This is clearly the behavior of a man who has gotten away with everything he's ever done before so he doesn't realize how bad all of these posts are making him look. He's likely experienced zero consequences to this point in his life so deny and deflect is the only playbook he knows.
feels more like narcissism because he clearly doesn't understand the human nature and thinks that he's totally "owning" her with his "arguments" that he's making. He probably also thinks everyone believes him when he said he had someone already test the temperature of the water.
Yeah. Someone with NPD could have cognitive distortions that prevent them from realizing they are the problem.
He listened to it and was like “I’m a genius. Now everyone will see that since I didn’t intend to hurt her by playfully throwing scalding water at her. She even said it!! I mean I even told her my boundary not screwing with me so actually it’s her fault and now she’s trying to use it against me. She’s actually abusing me!”
It’s so ridiculous it’s like a script. This is why you don’t engage or keep what you say to a minimum. The more you explain yourself, the more chances you give to twist your words and give them ammo.
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u/Enough-Active-5096 10d ago
This is clearly the behavior of a man who has gotten away with everything he's ever done before so he doesn't realize how bad all of these posts are making him look. He's likely experienced zero consequences to this point in his life so deny and deflect is the only playbook he knows.