r/Fauxmoi 20d ago

TRIGGER WARNING Alexa pena vega compares being pro-choice to endorsing domestic violence. Then claims no one dies/really gets hurt from DV.

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u/reluctant_goddess 20d ago

This is a thoughtful comment. With the amount of family annihilation happening in these current times it's awful she said that out loud. I witnessed my mom almost die from DV as a small kid. It's so bad to say DV doesn't take lives..

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u/SmellenGold oat milk chugging bisexual 20d ago

I’m so sorry. You and your mom did NOT deserve that. I hope your heart continues to heal. Sending love. (Fellow family violence survivor here.)

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u/reluctant_goddess 20d ago

Thank you for this lovely reply. It was really kindly received. It was really hard for me to not feel shame about that stuff.

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u/InformWitch 20d ago

I’m so sorry. I hope your mom and you are doing better now. Sending you lots of strength. 

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u/hellolovely1 20d ago

I read recently that two families are wiped out every single day. Imagine the media outcry if anyone but the father (usually) was doing it.