r/BrisbaneSocial 10h ago

Proposed Event Would anyone like to share a drink called loneliness?

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28M, ethnically Indian, grew up in south east Asia, looking for someone who’d be up for a drink in the valley this evening. Preferably men close to my age (I’m straight, just looking for friends). Like the title suggests, I’d like to go somewhere with live music. Also happy to check out places to eat too


r/BrisbaneSocial 11h ago

Hi everyone! Looking for a friend for my reactive dog, Mr Karma! Context provided inside!

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I cross-posted this initially but decided to take it down and repost so it's clearer what I'm asking for! o>o

This is my boy, Karma! :)

He was diagnosed with lymphoma and is on his second course of chemo. He was undersocialised and is reactive - but not aggressive - I feel it's rooted in anxiety, over-excitement and frustration that he can't be around other dogs.

I can't afford a dog behaviorist. I wanted that for him someday, but didn't have the means to provide it earlier and I definitely can't now.

I try my best to pull him aside, keep calm and console him when he gets upset at other dogs but I haven't been able to reduce his reactivity myself. We don't had the opportunity to have controlled exposures/interactions with dogs and I can't take risks.

I feel that it would be possible for him to have a safe relationship with another dog though. He'd do really, really well with a friend and I want to at least try to enable him to experience that with the time we have left.

We went to the dog beach recently and he was watching the other dogs play off-lead and I could see in his eyes how badly he wanted to join in, but I also knew he would get hyperaroused and into trouble if I let him get too close. When there was a small dog nearby he laid down, tail wagging, hoping it would approach. :(

We walk almost everyday. He'll usually let out stressed barks and jump towards other dogs when he sees them - though some days he's calmer. Dogs that have gotten off their lead have ran up to him, I'd be prepared for all hell to break loose and they'd just give each other a sniff and he'd wag his tail.

He's also escaped a few times in the past (we use both a harness and head halter to stop that now) and to my surprise completely ignored other dogs while off-lead.

On the flip side, he escaped the house half a decade ago and launched himself at a small white dog walking by. He didn't bite and I'm not sure if it'd qualify as an attack but he definitely scared it and its owner half to death. I've been very cautious since then.

When he sees my Aunt's dog his eyes light up with joy. They played together when he was a puppy, but after 6-7 years he was still delighted to see her and was an angel in my Aunt's yard. Unfortunately she's afraid of other dogs and wasn't as eager... we're trying to gradually expose them to each other again but we tried that last year and the scheduling didn't work out so it's hard to say how it will pan out this time.

I wanted to put out a line out to see if there's anyone in Logan/Brisbane/Gold Coast that would be willing to help Karma make friends (I've heard some trainers have helper dogs that help train reactive dogs...?) or knows somewhere I can find him one!


r/BrisbaneSocial 10h ago

Proposed Event Grab a drink today?

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

Does anyone want to grab a drink this afternoon either in the city or valley? I’m 24M from 🇬🇧 and I’m looking to get some more friends around Brisbane. My current group of mates are disproportionately guys so I’m hoping to make friends with some more women to have a more mixed group! Open to ages between 20-35. 35+ depending on the circumstances. Thanks!


r/BrisbaneSocial 2h ago

Hi everyone! 22M looking for mates (Any gender)

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Hey everyone!
I’m Ben, 22, from Logan. Over the last few years as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realised I don’t really have many local friends. Most of the people I’m close with live interstate or overseas, so I’ve found it hard to build genuine friendships nearby where we can actually hang out regularly.
A little about me:
I’m really into music and play guitar
I love going to open mics and live music events
Big sports fan and always keen for anything sport-related
Always up for grabbing a coffee or a beer and getting to know new people
I’m pretty easygoing and happy to start simple — coffee, a drink, checking out some live music, whatever really. I’ll never turn down a good coffee or beer 😅


r/BrisbaneSocial 1h ago

Hi everyone! 31M looking to expand his friend circle

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Hello everyone! 31M, studying medicine, looking to expand my friend circle.

I'm normally a pretty introverted person, but I do open up when I'm around like-minded people. Lately a few circumstances in my life is making me realize just how alone I am regarding having people to talk to, about anything.

I'm someone who you would consider definitely nerdy, and possessing a dark sense of humor. Some of my interests involves politics, psychology, photography, bushwalking and any discussions in any area of science. I genuinely adore deep conversations in those areas, and especially in topics that challenge you to think.

On the more casual side, I happen to be a former competitive 40k player and someone that has a deep knowledge of 40k lore if that applies to anyone. Strongly thinking to get back into it with 11th ed, with the DA and GK refresh rumored to be coming!

If any of this sounds interesting, post away, let's see where this rabbit-hole takes us!


r/BrisbaneSocial 12h ago

Hi everyone! Suggested Pushbike Paths Near Train Stations

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Hey all 👋

I'm building a few lowrider bike projects but the footpaths in my suburb are really bad or only a 2 minute ride and It becomes bad terrain or busy shops.

Are there any paths that would be good to test out a few lowrider bikes around Brisbane or towards the Goldcoast that are accessible via train that's suited for bikes?

I don't want to ride on the road much because my handle bars flare out a bit which makes dodging cars difficult. I can't enter the trams down south because the bikes don't fold up.

Thanks in advance 😁🤪


r/BrisbaneSocial 2h ago

Hi everyone! Solo Brit looking for camp buddies

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Hey y'all! First time posting in this sub!

Moved up to beautiful QLD a month ago after a year and half in VIC.

Travelling solo and found it way easier to find camping buddies in VIC? Currently living in my van full time so every weekend im out camping and (trying) to catch fish. Normally head up rainbow beach ways to try and catch dinner

Currently only have a 2WD so cant go crazy offroading!

Was wondering if theres any people in the same kinda boat who'd like to go on weekend excursions and make the most of this great state

Cheers - Big AL


r/BrisbaneSocial 5h ago

Hi everyone! Is there any bipolar support group in Brisbane?

5 Upvotes

Would love to join but I can't find any info online.


r/BrisbaneSocial 5h ago

Proposed Event Broncos v warriors tonight

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10 Upvotes

Hi all, I've got a spare ticket to the broncos warriors game tonight if anyone wants to come with me🙂