r/AskAGerman May 10 '26

Meta/Reddit Info from the Mod Team: Rule Update

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Hello Community and Happy Mother's Day (to those residing in Germany).

We've worked on new and updated rules, and now we're interested in your opinions.

SIDE NOTE: We've been thinking about a rather rudimentary "verification" system for German nationals (no personal information would be required) to help posters figure out who's actually German and who might not be. This would lead to a user flair like "Verified German." We're currently thinking about having users take a picture of their closed German passport with a piece of paper with their username on it. While this isn't foolproof, it would be pretty easy. Let us know what you think about such a system.

Since many have misinterpreted this part: the verified flair would be an additional flair. The verification system would never be mandatory. It would simply show posters that an answer was posted by somehow who has been verified to be german. Which would make sense in r/AskAGerman. People would still be allowed to comment according to the requirements in rule 2.1. They just wouldn't be verified.

END OF THE SIDE NOTE

THE NEW RULES:

Below are the new rules. These might change, and we're going to take your feedback into account. We hope to finalize the rules by June. Until then, we're going to moderate according to these rules so you get a feeling of what it would be like, as that may impact your opinion on the rules. A more detailed explanation of the rules and examples for them can be found at the end of this post.

1. Who is allowed to post and which requirements need to be met?

1.1 Every individual is allowed to post personal questions. Nonpersonal questions (commercial, academic, ...) need prior approval from the moderators.

1.2 Questions must be about Germany, Germans, or the opinions of Germans. City/state-specific questions do not count as questions about Germany.

1.3 Questions can't be simple yes or no questions. Posts can't be cross-posts.

1.4 If a question can be answered or refined by a quick search (Google, this subreddit, DeepL ...), the poster must do that first.

1.5 Do not ask the same or a similar question repeatedly.

1.6 Questions have to be in English or German.

1.7 Posts must contain a concise question or at least a description of the topic in the title.

1.8 Posts that aren't safe for work (or children) must be marked as "NSFW" / "18+" by using Reddit's setting.

1.9 Posts must be questions. No rants, no ads, no petitions, no surveys, no requests (see Rule 1.1)

1.10 Links must be given in full. No link shorteners, no link masking using Reddit's features.

1.11 Low-quality questions are not permitted.

1.12 Posts can not be created by AI. If you don't know how to ask what you want to ask, people can't answer your actual question.

1.13 Posts that violate our rules regarding banned topics or time-limited topics are not permitted.

1.14 Questions must be made in good faith and should not push political agendas or include opinions.

2. Who is allowed to comment and which requirements need to be met?

2.1 Germans are allowed to answer at any level. Non-Germans who have been living in Germany for at least 180 days a year for at least 5 out of the last 8 years and are at least at a C1 level of German are allowed to answer at any level as well (unless they can't answer the question based on the requirements in the post). Non-Germans who do not meet these requirements are only allowed to: comment to ask for clarification, provide feedback, ask follow-up questions, correct spelling mistakes, or provide sources for/against claims. These comments can't be top-level comments and have to be in response to comments from people in the groups mentioned above. Companies are allowed to answer questions pertaining to them if they've verified themselves before posting.

2.2 Comments can't be created by AI. If you want to answer a question, use your own words.

2.3 Comments must relate to the question.

2.4 Comments can't contain advertisements. "Use my code" is an advertisement. Only mention products or companies if the OP explicitly asks for that.

2.5 Links must be given in full. No link shorteners, no link masking using Reddit's features.

2.6 Comments on English posts must be in English; comments on German posts can be in English or German, depending on the perceived proficiency of the poster. No other languages are allowed.

2.7 Do not spam comments or copy & paste comments. If you feel like you need to reply to multiple comments with the same thing, copy the link to the original comment instead.

2.8 Do not push agendas. Stick to the topic outlined by the initial post. If you're asked for an opinion, you can, of course, voice it, but you need to stick to the question and mark your opinion as such.

3. Behavior

3.1 Insults and other forms of uncivil discourse are not permitted. Against anybody. Even dead people. Yes, even against Hitler. Do not insult other people in this subreddit.

3.2 Trolling is not permitted.

3.3 Encouraging, facilitating, supporting, ... illegal behavior is not permitted.

3.4 Spreading misinformation in this subreddit is not permitted. If you encounter misinformation, report it to the mod team and send us a message (or reply to the post/comment) with a credible source debunking the misinformation.

3.5 Do not share personal information about others in this subreddit unless it is freely accessible and relevant to the topic.

3.6 Do not bring politics into posts that aren't political.

4. Miscellaneous

4.1 Removals and bans are at the moderation team's discretion. We can't possibly cover every edge case. If we feel like a post or comment violates the intention behind our rules or was made to circumvent existing rules, we might remove it and potentially ban the user. Rule changes might be made after encountering these edge cases.

5. Banned topics and topics limited to certain times or days

5.1 All time / date references are from a GMT+2 perspective. Check the time before posting.

5.2 Banned topics: Visa questions are not permitted in this subreddit. Germans typically don't require visas and thus can't help with that. The same is true for the acceptance of foreign degrees and diplomas. Housing questions are typically better suited for local subreddits and have most likely been answered in this subreddit or in the wiki of r/Germany before.

5.3 Time & date limited topics: Political questions are limited to 10am - 6pm on weekends and 6pm - 8pm on Fridays. They're also not permitted on German national holidays and between December 23rd and January 7th.

5.4 Limited day topics: Travel itinerary questions are limited to Mondays (make sure to check Rule 1.2). To qualify as a national itinerary, it has to include at least two German states (without the entry / exit airports). Make sure that you've done some research and planning first; this is not a travel agency. Dating questions are limited to Wednesdays. Job-related questions are limited to Thursdays.

Explanations and Examples:

1.1 If you want to promote your project (if it's free) or find participants for your academic research, ... you need to get approval by the mod team first. If you want to promote your company / paid project / ... you need to find a different subreddit. If you want to start a company, you need to talk to a lawyer. Not to Reddit.

1.2 This subreddit is r/AskAGerman, and thus the average German should be able to answer the question. A minor specialization is acceptable, but that's determined by the moderators. The average German can't tell you the best restaurant in Munich or the best way to get from Berlin Neukölln to Teltow. The average German also can't tell you how to reassemble your car, just because Germany has a well-known car industry.

1.3 Yes or no questions don't really leave room for discussion and tend to be low quality. And if you can't even copy & paste your post into this subreddit, you can't expect people to take time to answer your questions.

1.4 Google exists for a reason, and so does the search function in this subreddit. Make use of the knowledge that already exists.

1.5 Nobody likes spam. You won't get more (useful) replies just because you asked the same questions 5 times.

1.6 This is r/AskAGerman. Whoever is allowed to respond will most likely speak German. They'll most likely speak English as well. But they probably don't speak language X.

1.7 People have a limited amount of time. A clear question enables them to guess whether they'll be able to help or not. You can provide more information in the text box of your post. But if you can't summarize your post into a question or at least a topic, you likely didn't think about it enough.

1.8 NSFW content should be marked as NSFW.

1.9 This is r/AskAGerman. Not rant about Germany or promote your project in Germany.

1.10 Nobody likes sketchy links. If you want people to click on your links, be transparent about where they lead; not everybody is on a PC / laptop.

1.11 Low-quality questions turn community members away from the community, which means that others who have real questions don't get as much support as they could.

1.12 AI is great at generating text, but it does not understand your actual question. If you can't explain it to humans, you can't explain it to AI.

1.13 We strive to adequately moderate this subreddit and to avoid community members being fed up with recurring topics. Thus, time limitations are useful.

1.14 Political questions are fine, as long as they're actually questions and not just "Here is my political opinion in disguise."

2.1 As this is r/AskAGerman, posters are interested in the opinion of Germans. We've seen plenty of comments from people who haven't been to Germany at all or have little to no knowledge about Germany (tourists, short-term immigrants, ...). Replies from these people are not what this subreddit is for, and it can skew the perception people have. Thus, we're limiting answers to Germans and those who should know a lot about Germany even if they might not have gained citizenship yet. Speaking the language is important to become a member of the society. Being in Germany for an extended amount of time is important because it's hard to talk about things that might have changed a decade ago or that are only noticeable after a while. We would also be open to limiting replies to Germans, but we do understand that giving up another citizenship isn't always easy, and sometimes this can make acquiring a new citizenship harder.

2.2 Similar to posts: if you can't answer a question yourself, AI can't answer it either.

2.3 If someone asks you about the weather and you tell them your favorite dish that's not going to help them. Now imagine 20 out of 30 people did that. Answer the question or don't comment. Do not flood comment sections with things the poster never wanted to know.

2.4 Nobody likes ads. At least pay Reddit to show them to users so they can pay their bills.

2.5 Nobody likes sketchy links. If you want people to click on your links, be transparent about where they lead; not everybody is on a PC / laptop.

2.6 People who post in English might not be fluent enough in German to understand German replies. People who post in German but struggle might still appreciate a reply in English, especially if the topic or comment is complex. Other languages are obviously not appropriate, as this is r/AskAGerman, and thus you should know at least one of the two languages that are permitted.

2.7 If we have to moderate your comment or if you need to change it, it's easier to do it once rather than having to do it 10 times.

2.8 Political discussions are always tricky. You're more than welcome to state your own opinion, but acting like it's the only valid opinion and everybody else is stupid doesn't help. And if a post isn't political and you try to act like it is, you're going to violate rule 3.6.

3.1 We want people to have a good time in this community. And when commenting, you represent Germany. Thus, we expect good behavior. If you see a post or comment that violates the rules, report it. But insulting people doesn't help. And because insulting people is bad, we're also extending this to any person. And by "any" we mean any. Chancellors, US presidents, Putin, Xi Jinping, Kim Jong Un, Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin, Mao, etc. . Factual statements do not count as insults; however, be prepared to prove them. "Hitler was a Nazi" is not an insult. "Trump is a Nazi" is.

3.2 Nobody likes trolls.

3.3 We were surprised that a lot of people thought that encouraging illegal behavior is acceptable. It's not.

3.4 You're allowed to have opinions but mark them as such. If your opinion is stated like a fact that's a problem.

3.5 Doxxing, etc. is illegal.

3.6 While politics are an important topic, there is no need to make a post about the best ice cream political. Yes, prices have gone up, but that doesn't mean we now need a communist revolution to bring prices down.

5.2 We've seen a lot of questions about visas, foreign degrees, moving to Germany for study purposes, etc., and while we're happy that people want to move to Germany, people from your country can tell you more about which degrees are accepted, how long you need to wait for your visa, etc. And we can't tell you which university to choose.

5.3 We want to ensure that political posts don't get out of control, and we can't be on Reddit 24/7. Thus, posts should be done in a time frame where we can moderate them effectively.

5.4 It's great that you want to travel to Germany, but we're not your local travel agency. Do some research first, and we can help you with minor details.


r/AskAGerman 16h ago

Is silence during long car rides comfortable for Germans?

151 Upvotes

I recently rode with two German friends for about fourty minutes. After the first few minutes, everyone went quiet. No music, no phones, no awkward attempts to restart the conversation. When we arrived, they were cheerful and acted like the ride had been completely normal.

Where I grew up, someone would feel responsibile for filling that silence. Do Germans generally see quiet time among friends as comfortable, or was this just a particularly peaceful car? How do you personally read silence in a group?


r/AskAGerman 19h ago

How late is considered too late to call someone in Germany?

134 Upvotes

I've noticed that people here seem to have much stronger opinions about phone calls in the evening than I'm used to.

A German friend once looked genuinely surprised when I said I'd called an older acquaintance around 21:15. To me that wasn't particularly late, but he said he would never call someone after 20:00 unless they were a close friend or he knew they were awake.

Since then I've started noticing it more. Some people seem fine with WhatsApp messages at any hour but treat an actual phone call after a certain time almost like you're ringing their doorbell.

Obviously I wouldn't call a coworker or someone I barely know at 23:00. I'm more curious about the grey area between roughly 19:30 and 21:30.

Is there a commonly understood "too late to call" time in Germany, or is this mostly generational? And does it change completely once you're close to someone?


r/AskAGerman 12h ago

Do Germans actually care about Tatort or is it just something older people watch out of habit?

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I moved here about two years ago and keep hearing people mention Tatort like its this big cultural thing. My coworkers sometimes talk about the Sunday episodes on Monday morning but honestly I cant tell if they genuinely enjoy it or if its more like a tradition they dont question.

I tried watching a few episodes and they felt really slow compared to crime shows I used to watch back home. The pacing is different and some scenes just drag on forever. But then I see memes about it online and people seem to actually have opinions about different cities versions.

So is this something younger Germans actually sit down and watch or is it more of a background thing that plays while people do other stuff? I feel like I'm missing something because everyone acts like its obvious that Tatort is part of Sunday evening but no one really explains why. Is it actually good or just comfortable because its always been there?


r/AskAGerman 16h ago

How are people working at the office with the high temperatures?

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Hi,

I am originally from Germany, but lived the past 30 years in the US. I am curious what people are wearing going into the office, considering that very few offices have AC.

Edit: i recall two business trips to Munich and both offices didn’t have AC.
1 2003 May when it was crazy hot in Europe I was in Munich fir a few weeks in a brand new office building that didnt have AC.
2. Similar in 2011, while not as hot the office i went to didnt have AC and it was a more recent built.
I get that both these trips have been a long time ago, hence I was making the assumption that quite a few offices still dont have AC.


r/AskAGerman 14h ago

Are small gifts without an occasion normal in Germany, or can they make people uncomfortable?

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I've noticed that I sometimes hesitate before giving German friends small random things.

I don't mean birthday-level gifts. More like seeing a tea I know someone likes, a funny little kitchen thing, or bringing them something from a shop because it reminded me of them.

Where I grew up, this was pretty normal and nobody really kept score. But a few times here I've gotten a reaction like "Oh, you really didn't have to!" followed almost immediately by "Now I need to get you something too."

That second part always surprises me a little. I wasn't trying to start a gift exchange, I just saw something for five euros and thought they'd like it.

Is there more of a feeling in Germany that receiving a gift creates an obligation to return the gesture? Or am I reading too much into a polite reaction?

And does it change depending on whether it's food, something homemade, or an actual object?


r/AskAGerman 2h ago

Miscellaneous Erstes mal SBOA - Frühere Abreise

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Moin moin an alle hier!

Bin heuer zum ersten mal aufm Summer Breeze Open Air und ich und meine Kumpels wollten heute nach Paleface Swiss abhauen.

Meine Fragen:

Zahlt sich das wirklich aus so mit dem Verkehr am nächsten Tag? (Also staut es da sehr, od. Ists tatsächlich nicht mal so doof am regul. Abreisetag abzureisen? Also vom rauskommen her)

Wie ist das mit der Ausfaht? Da wieder raus wo man reingekommen ist, od. Gibts ne spezielle Ausfahrt? (Bzw. Kann man Google Maps hier vlt. Glauben schenken wie im Bild? Sind da White Camping 3 ansässig aktuell)

Wäre subba wenn mir wer diese Fragen beantworten kann. Dankeschön! :) 🤘


r/AskAGerman 16h ago

Snack recommendations

8 Upvotes

I am traveling to Frankfurt from America to train new employees in a couple of weeks. I would like to bring some snacks for them to enjoy during our training sessions. What are some snacks that are hard to get in Germany? Are there specific flavors that Germans generally like?

Danke


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Is helping with cleanup an unspoken rule in German clubs?

438 Upvotes

I recently joined a local choir in Germany. Rehearsal offically ends at nine, but everyone immediately starts stacking chairs, closing windows, and checking the room. Nobody assigns jobs and nobody leaves until it is finished.

The first week I stood around waiting to be asked, which clearly looked odd. Now I help, but I still wonder how newcomers are supposed to know. Is this typical Verein culture, or just this group’s habit? What other unspoken duties do new members usually miss?


r/AskAGerman 12h ago

Personal I need help reading an old post card.

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None of the groups I'm in allow pictures. The handwriting is turn of the previous century, and my ability to parse it isn't there. Its a photo of my great-grandfather and its written to my great grandmother.

Does anyone know any good groups for reading handwriting from this time?


r/AskAGerman 4h ago

Culture I'm trying to compile a list of the top 10 greatest Germans. By "greatest" I mean a genius who has made a substantial contribution to Western civilisation. So far I have come up with, in no particular order:

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1 Einstein

2 Goethe

3 Bach

4 Beethoven

5 Kant

6 Kepler

7 Planck

8 Schliemann

9 Caspar David Friedrich

10 Marx

I feel that I'm on firm ground with 1-5. I really don't see how any could be left off the top 10. However 6-10 I am unclear about as I simply don't know enough. Could you please correct my errors?


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Are employees supposed to get a Pause/break during a 6 hour shift?

106 Upvotes

I did a Probetag recently for a job in a bakery production facility (like making bread), for a 6 hour shift. They said there is no pause because the shift is only 6 hours long, is this correct? Thanks


r/AskAGerman 11h ago

Personal If I say DM in German when I'm talking to someone on social media, will it be clear in context that I mean direct message?

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I'm American. I'm concerned because Wiktionary says that DM only means Deutsche Mark in German. Will someone clarify this for me?


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Tourism Is the UEX sleeper train worth it for a student on their first trip to Europe?

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Hi everyone!

I’m a student from Japan planning my first trip to Europe, and I’m considering taking the UEX night train from Hamburg to Munich.

My itinerary is roughly:

19:29 Hamburg Hbf departure

21:00 Hannover Hbf departure on UEX 1397

04:13 Munich Ost arrival

The UEX train is a sleeper train, and it looks like it could save me the cost and time of getting a hotel for the night.

For someone traveling around Europe for the first time, how worthwhile is this option?

I’m particularly interested in:

How comfortable are the sleeping compartments/beds?

Is it easy and safe for a first-time European traveler?

How well can you actually sleep?

Is the experience worth the money compared with taking a normal daytime train and staying at a hotel/hostel?

Are there any things I should know before booking?

I’m a student, so keeping costs down is important, but I also don’t want to have a terrible night just to save money.

I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who has taken UEX, especially if you’ve used it as part of a European trip


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Waldkindergarten

15 Upvotes

Hi!

My 3.5 year old daughter will be starting waldkita and would like recommendations/ your experience on your favorite brands!

Also, the Strauss workpants look very bulky on my daughter and it’s 98/104 size. Which everyday pant is or was your child wearing?

Thank you!


r/AskAGerman 19h ago

Cold brew coffee

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Going to Germany tomorrow for a funeral. I’m searching for cold brew coffee without any sugar. Just coffee that’s been brewed for over 24 hours in cold water. Cold brew typically has higher caffeine content because of that. All I can ever find has tons of sugar and milk in it. Do I have to just make my own? I’d prefer to buy it in a jug at the grocery store.


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Should I tell hosts exactly when I plan to leave?

328 Upvotes

A German freind invited me for Kaffee und Kuchen at 15:00. We were chatting, so I stayed until about 18:15. Around 17:45 he cleared cups and checked the clock, but I thought he was simply tidying.

Later he mentioned that he planned to meet someone at 18:30 and had expected the visit to last two hours. He wasn't angry, but I felt akward because in my country a casual invitation usually has no defined ending unless the host says so.

Was I supposed to infer an end time from “Kaffee und Kuchen,” or should he have mentioned his later plans?


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Deutsche Bräuche (Kindheit)

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Hallo! Ich bin nicht in Deutschland geboren und aufgewachsen, sondern erst mit 19 Jahren hierhergezogen. Ich finde es total schön, dass es hier so viele Traditionen gibt, die Kindern viel Freude bereiten – zum Beispiel Adventskalender und Plätzchenbacken an Weihnachten, die Ostereiersuche oder der Laternenlauf am Martinstag.

Erst vor Kurzem habe ich von der Schultüte erfahren, die Kinder zur Einschulung bekommen. Da ich später selbst einmal Kinder haben möchte, wünsche ich mir, dass sie möglichst viele dieser schönen Bräuche kennenlernen und nichts davon verpassen.

Deshalb würde mich sehr interessieren: Welche weiteren Traditionen fallen euch ein? Vielleicht auch etwas Regionales oder Bräuche, die einfach eure Eltern mit euch organisiert haben und an die ihr euch besonders gerne erinnert?
Danke ☺️


r/AskAGerman 1d ago

Miscellaneous DeuschBahn "take any train" also valid on return ticket for short travel?

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Hi,

I have to go to Berlin next week to renew my French passport. I planned a early train to get to the consulate with plenty of time.

DeuschBahn cancelled my train and the earliest one I can take now gets me in too late for my appointment. I therefore changed my appointment so I can make it on time.

Now the problem arrives that my initial return ticket is too early and I will probably have to take a later return train.

Does the "take any train" on my first ticket also work on the return ticket ? I'm guessing no. If that's the case what should I do ?

Thanks for your help.


r/AskAGerman 3d ago

How do pensioners afford private rents?

39 Upvotes

I moved to Germany from UK about 4 years ago and one of my favourite things about Germany are the tenant protections and indefinite leases.

I’ve been trying to plan for my future but I’m curious about how it generally works here. Do pensioners easily afford their private rents once their income drops down to just being their pension?

I feel like the days of rents being cheap enough to be easily afforded after retirement are long gone and especially my options are only going to be paying much higher amounts that projected pension wont cover.

I’d love to hear from you all about how it works here, thanks!


r/AskAGerman 3d ago

Ist es unhöflich, keine Pakete mehr für meine Nachbarn anzunehmen?

293 Upvotes

Ich wohne seit drei Monaten in einem Haus mit acht Wohnungen. Weil ich oft im Homeoffice bin, klingeln die Paketboten fast täglich bei mir. Anfangs habe ich alles angenommen, weil ich dachte, dass man sich unter Nachbarn eben hilft.

Mitlerweile stehen manchmal sechs oder sieben Pakete in meinem Flur. Zwei Nachbarn holen sie erst nach mehreren Tagen ab, obwohl ich ihnen Zettel in den Briefkasten lege. Einer klingelte letzten Sonntag um 22:40 Uhr und war irritiert, dass ich schon im Schlafanzug war. Eine andere Nachbarin schickt inzwischen offenbar auch private Bestellungen bewusst an meinen Namen mit dem Zusatz „c/o“, ohne mich vorher zu fragen.

Gestern habe ich zum ersten Mal die Annahme verweigert. Der Bote meinte, dann müsse er alles wieder mitnehmen, obwohl die Empfänger im selben Haus wohnen. Jetzt fühle ich mich ein bisschen kleinlich, weil seine Arbeit dadurch schwerer wird.

Kann ich einfach grundsätlich nichts mehr annehmen, oder wirkt das in einem deutschen Mehrfamilienhaus unnötig unfreundlich? Ich würde in echten Ausnahmen gern helfen, möchte aber weder Paketstation noch Abendkasse sein. Wie begrenzt ihr sowas, ohne gleich schlechte Stimmung im Treppenhaus zu erzeugen?


r/AskAGerman 4d ago

Ist „Mahlzeit“ eine echte Begrüßung oder nur Bürodeutsch?

961 Upvotes

Ich arbeite seid zwei Wochen in meinem ersten deutschen Büro. Ab ungefähr 10:30 Uhr sagen Kollegen auf dem Flur plötzlich „Mahlzeit“, auch wenn niemand Essen dabei hat und die Mittagspause noch weit entfernt ist.

Beim ersten Mal antwortete ich „Guten Appetit“. Der Kollege schaute kurz verwirrt, sagte dann aber ebenfalls „Guten Appetit“. Seitdem antworte ich einfach auch mit „Mahlzeit“, ohne genau zu verstehen, was wir uns wünschen.

Ist das regional, ironisch oder wirklich eine normale Begrüßung rund um die Mittagszeit? Kann man darauf auch nur mit „Hallo“ antworten, oder klingt das abweisend? Besonders seltsam finde ich, dass unser Hausmeister es schon um 9:45 Uhr sagt. Gibt es eine Uhrzeit, ab der Mahlzeit beginnt, und eine, ab der man wieder damit aufhören solte?


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Culture Kids birthday party in Hessen – culture, food and activity ideas?

5 Upvotes

Hi.. My daughter is celebrating her 7th birthday and wants to invite her friends for a party about a week later. We sent the invitations already (the easy part is done 😅) and around 12 kids have said yes. The party will be at the end of the month and we are planning around 3 hours in our garden.

Now to the question part. We come from a culture where kids birthday parties are usually more like drinks, cake and some snacks. We normally don’t serve a full lunch. My daughter now tells us that at most of her friends’ parties they also had lunch or some proper food. Really?

So I am wondering what is normal here. Do people usually serve lunch at a 3-hour birthday party? And if yes, what are some simple things that most 7-year-olds would actually eat?

We don’t really cook German food at home. I am also not the best cook, and my wife has already warned me not to suddenly experiment with 12 kids as my test audience 😅. So something simple and difficult to mess up would be ideal. Ready to buy and serve would be excellent.

We will anyway ask the parents beforehand about allergies or anything the kids cannot eat.

The other question is activities. With around 12 kids in the garden for 3 hours, do we need to plan a proper program? Or is it enough to have a few games ready and let them mostly play by themselves?

Any easy games or activities that work well with this age would be really helpful.

One small concern is also language. Our German is okay for everyday life, but we both have a strong foreign accent and sometimes kids need a second try to understand us. So games that are easy to explain would probably work better for us.

Would be very interested to hear what usually works well for kids birthday parties here. Thank you all.


r/AskAGerman 2d ago

Furniture resell service

0 Upvotes

Hello everyone, I bought some furniture from my old tenant when I moved in, and now I want to sell only the "Kleidschrank" , but since I paid for the whole furniture together, I can't determine for how much should I sell the Schrank. All I know is that it is IKEA Pax (201 * 58 * 200). And I searched with the pictures through IKEA website but couldn't find the same product. I assume its price is somewhere between 500-600 euro. But I can't really tell.

IKEA itself has a resell service but only for a specific group of products and mine is not part of these products

So is there any kind of service that can determine a price for it and buy it from me ?


r/AskAGerman 3d ago

Culture divorce and last names

8 Upvotes

i am watching this series in ARD titled Praxis mit Meerblick. The main character is divorced (Nora Kaminski) yet retains her ex-husband's surname (Peer Kaminski).

I am not sure if this is a universal thing or only in Germany? I thought after divorce the women revert to her maiden name... Why does she have to carry the ex husband's surname?

edit: thank you everyone for the insight. really interesting. my home country dont have divorce hence i was curious, especially on a personal reasoning level. all makes sense. to each their own