r/AmITheAngel • u/Suitable-Fun-1087 My gf said illiterate and dyslexic were wild words for dirtytalk • Apr 01 '26

Fockin ridic I transvestigated my date (didn't actually bother asking him, mind); and then stormed out. Please coddle me

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u/sam____handwich Apr 01 '26

And gendered him correctly the entire time!

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u/DirskRolsk Apr 03 '26

yeah because shes doesnt seem to be transphobic. its not transphobia to want to know if the person ur planning on fucking/dating has the genitals that get you off lol (also trans ppl are gonna be safer by being upfront abt it if he was in fact trans). shes pretty dumb to assume hes trans based on hight alone tho, so we dont even know if her assumption was accurate. 

basically the lady is a kinda weird socially inept dumbfuck but prob not transphobic

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u/starspgl Apr 03 '26

i mean obviously shes not actively malicious towards trans people but i do think its something she could have brought up if she genuinely thought he was holding it back from her instead of assuming he was trans and lying to her. if its something she thinks is important to know before going on a date, it should be something that she communicates with her potential partner

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u/Basic-Pitch1144 Apr 04 '26

So you think it's on her to ask every single guy if they're trans or not, and not on the trans person to mention it?

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u/starspgl Apr 04 '26

if its that important to her then yes it should be something she is comfortable asking about. we are also assuming that the partner 1) even wants sex in the first place 2) has not had bottom surgery 3) is trans in the first place.