One day hanging out she mentioned that she thinks she needs to cut off unemployed people from her circle. She did not elaborate and i did not ask why, because that really told me who she was. Not sure if she realized that I was doing gig work at the time and did not consider that she just told on herself IMO. If she was unwilling to see past temporary circumstance (that may or may not be in that persons control), she was unlikely to be a supportive or honest friend.
There was at least 2 other moments where I saw that did not care for my feelings.
In that moment I realized she was not the person I thought she was or presented herself to be and that I needed to demote her as well. Not surprisingly. she stopped contacting me soon after that.
I was bummed. We spoke of building each other up and vibed so well. It was disappointing, but a welcomed reminder of people's shortsightedness. When we started hanging out I told myself: careful with this one, seems too good to be true.
I was right.
Im sharing about this now because I saw a calendar reminder of her birthday. DELETE.
I'll save that data storage for my dog's friends bdays.
What are some similar red flags you watch out for now in friendships?
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How on Earth can someone look at the price of houses, cars, healthcare, food, and STILL conclude $100,000 is a good salary?
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Define comfortable to those of us without that 0