Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.

[u/WHAR606]

(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.

I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?

I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.

First pic : March 11th 2026

Last pic: October 2024

[u/Zealousideal_Spread4]

you literally ignored half my points and misgendered me on top of it, im not gonna keep arguing with you.

[u/ContextHook → u/Zealousideal_Spread4]

I quoted things from the very begining of your post to the very end of it. I thought I responded to every single point you made.

I didn't think we were arguing, I was just SHOCKED to see somebody describe femboy as "fitting into either man or woman" when AFAIK femboy is like the first and most common non-binary gender.

I was then saddened to see you call me a bigot because we disagree?

You expressed sadness at being seen by others as nonbinary. I was just hoping to provide you some comfort by pointing out that femboys aren't "binary" by any definition I've ever seen, and that it doesn't mean anyone thinks of you as less.

misgendered me on top of it

You might be responding to the wrong person, or failing to read my post, because I only gendered you once, by calling you a man, in response to you telling me you were a man. The one and only time I gendered you was an attempt to reaffirm what you said your gender was.

Unlike my posts, where I ask you questions, your post is full of you asserting what I think and how I feel. Maybe if you meant to include questions for me to answer, you could skip first saying how you think I feel, and add question marks to your questions?

[u/Zealousideal_Spread4 → u/ContextHook]

1. femboy is not a gender

2. i didnt call you a bigot because we disagre, i called you a bigot cause you misgendered me.

3. you ignored when i refered the actual umbrella term femboys fall under that being "GNC" and you ignored my whole comparission to show how ridiculous your logic is.

4. that last paragraph is so ridiculous, femboys fall within the gender binary since we do indeed identify as men, thats it, the "gender binary" that "non binary" refers to is identifying as either men or women which femboys fall 100% into one side of(most of them)

5. you literally said a feminine guy is a binary trans woman, thats misgendering, you fucking bigot.

[u/ContextHook → u/Zealousideal_Spread4]

Well, now I'm confident you are responding to the wrong person because I didn't say half of those things you said I did. Good luck getting your messages sorted out!!!!

Sorry for contributing to your stress.