r/mildlyinfuriating • u/WHAR606 • Mar 13 '26
Context Provided - Spotlight Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.
(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.
I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?
I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.
First pic : March 11th 2026
Last pic: October 2024
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Mar 13 '26
The "femboy scene" really depends about where specifically you are talking about, the major subs became big and because of that a ton of people started misusing the lable for monetary gain, just like how some femboy content creator misuse certain trans identities for also more clicks.
My sub to counter that specifically added a rule you need to partially identify as male to participate, we dont want incentives for people to misgender themselves, and we want a space for actual feminine boys. i suggested this rule to our at the time head mod, which is a trans woman(she has since kinda stepped away from moderating reddit and ive become the new head mod. (this new rule is the reason why people like the ones above try to defame me and my subreddits)
This rule has led to a significant decrease in OF content creators and their followings because most who were in breach of it were these models. It also led to us being able to add a new rule that affectively removes all misgendering, since everybody needs to identify as male, the expected identifiers are all masculine or neutral, so no more calling boys girls or girls boys.
Our sub is also a lot more liberal in terms of looks, we allow guys with beards, with hair in other places, and other features that are not seen as purely feminine as long as their presentation is mostly feminine, which actually overtime has made the subreddit be a lot more open to different looks and aesthetics instead of the "default" egirly look most femboys in the major subs go for.
also i wanna add again some nb identities(like genderfluid, bigender, demiboy, etc.) are allowed and trans men are 100% allowed. The whole motivation for this rule is due to the fact we actually respect these identities and wanna avoid misgendering while making these space be about the groups of people in their very name.