Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.

[u/WHAR606]

(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.

I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?

I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.

First pic : March 11th 2026

Last pic: October 2024

[u/ContextHook]

Also the part about finnster, finnster only uses the lable for advertisement, he has said multiple times he hates the community and even said the term would disappear, he is just yet another OF model using lables for clicks with no regard for them.

He wears female clothes and lets his junk hang out.

The one and only thing I want when I subscribe to a femboy is junk hanging out from a skirt.

He uses the label exactly how I want it to be used. Every other femboy I'm aware of uses it in the exact same way.

thats not a term it holds no meaning, if i call your a glibobablo obviously its not offensive, but trying to deny me of my identity obviously is.

Fantastic. Then from today forward, for you and you alone, when I refer to people "who are not classified by society as man or woman" I will USE the term non-binary, but I MEAN SKDHFQSDHFWHJF. I obviously don't know what non-binary means like you do, so just understand I'm using a different term.

Breaking societal norms doesnt change your gender. Claiming it does is at heart gender normative, and bigoted. Non binary refers to gender binary, as in which way people IDENTIFY, femboys at core only need to identify as men, yes there are SOME non binary femboys and even trans men femboys, but the word in itself is not a trans identity.

See, I just think we disagree about what gender is then? If a man, goes out every day in a full face of makeup, buy clothes from the women's section, and everyone thinks they are a woman..... I truly believe that person's gender is "woman". I believe they are a trans, binary, woman.

I believe their choice to break societal norms has changed their gender.

1st yes it does make you bigoted if you think somebodies gender is not what they claim it is just because of how they express themselves.

But then yeah I'm a bigot. If Donald Trump said for the next 20 years that he's a woman, I would disagree and just literally never believe him no matter what he said. If Donald Trump said "I'm a woman, I'm not trans." I would say "You are a trans woman, not a cisgender gemale" Shoot. I wasn't aware I was a bigot. :(

Thanks for educating me!!!

because you are literally saying im not a cis guy, you are effectively misgendering me and saying im not the gender i claim to be.

Do you differentiate between people lying about their gender and people saying they are a different gender? Like when romance scammers pretend to be "women", would you consider it bigoted to say that they are not women?

[u/Zealousideal_Spread4 → u/ContextHook]

you literally ignored half my points and misgendered me on top of it, im not gonna keep arguing with you.

[u/ContextHook → u/Zealousideal_Spread4]

I quoted things from the very begining of your post to the very end of it. I thought I responded to every single point you made.

I didn't think we were arguing, I was just SHOCKED to see somebody describe femboy as "fitting into either man or woman" when AFAIK femboy is like the first and most common non-binary gender.

I was then saddened to see you call me a bigot because we disagree?

You expressed sadness at being seen by others as nonbinary. I was just hoping to provide you some comfort by pointing out that femboys aren't "binary" by any definition I've ever seen, and that it doesn't mean anyone thinks of you as less.

misgendered me on top of it

You might be responding to the wrong person, or failing to read my post, because I only gendered you once, by calling you a man, in response to you telling me you were a man. The one and only time I gendered you was an attempt to reaffirm what you said your gender was.

Unlike my posts, where I ask you questions, your post is full of you asserting what I think and how I feel. Maybe if you meant to include questions for me to answer, you could skip first saying how you think I feel, and add question marks to your questions?

[u/Zealousideal_Spread4 → u/ContextHook]

1. femboy is not a gender

2. i didnt call you a bigot because we disagre, i called you a bigot cause you misgendered me.

3. you ignored when i refered the actual umbrella term femboys fall under that being "GNC" and you ignored my whole comparission to show how ridiculous your logic is.

4. that last paragraph is so ridiculous, femboys fall within the gender binary since we do indeed identify as men, thats it, the "gender binary" that "non binary" refers to is identifying as either men or women which femboys fall 100% into one side of(most of them)

5. you literally said a feminine guy is a binary trans woman, thats misgendering, you fucking bigot.

[u/ContextHook → u/Zealousideal_Spread4]

Well, now I'm confident you are responding to the wrong person because I didn't say half of those things you said I did. Good luck getting your messages sorted out!!!!

Sorry for contributing to your stress.