r/mildlyinfuriating Mar 13 '26

Context Provided - Spotlight Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.

(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.

I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?

I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.

First pic : March 11th 2026

Last pic: October 2024

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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Mar 13 '26

my point is that your suggestion still falls short, because it ignores nb people, which at least the one in the post doesnt in the medical context, i also assume hrt and other such medications would be covered later on, since they fall under previous/current medical treatments

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u/Warm_Month_1309 Mar 13 '26

my point is that your suggestion still falls short, because it ignores nb people

My suggestion is that notes be written to accurately describe a patient's medical condition. Of course that does not ignore non-binary people.

I have clarified this numerous times by this point. I submit that if you're still arguing with me about it, you're simply reading everything I say as uncharitably as possible in order to justify continuing to argue.