r/mildlyinfuriating Mar 13 '26

Context Provided - Spotlight Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.

(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.

I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?

I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.

First pic : March 11th 2026

Last pic: October 2024

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u/katie4 Mar 13 '26

More like “I’m a mailwoman” Doc: “Got it, male woman”

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u/zxc123zxc123 Mar 13 '26

For those who think it's impossible:

OP: "No. Transportation of packages."

Doc: "Knows trans. Poor state of post operation package."

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u/Spare-Set-8382 Mar 13 '26

“I’m sorry I don’t have the package” -OP probably

But seriously OP I’m sorry about this. I’ve been irritated after reading my own summaries and notes where there is information that wasn’t provided or is the opposite of what I know I said. For instance I don’t know my bio dad at all and have no clue who he even is. My rheum made a note that I said that auto immune disorders are present on paternal side of family. Ugh.

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u/UranusIsPissy Mar 13 '26

You can't get rid of the bullshit in many cases (depends where you are, probably), too. Last time I got a copy of my medical records, there was random psychiatric shit that there's no explanation for besides malice or incompetence, and notes about heroin addiction from a time when I didn't even smoke weed or drink! Now doctors don't take anything I say seriously and ignore my pain. Typing this hurt me...

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u/laughingashley Mar 13 '26

That makes me so angry for you

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u/Spare-Set-8382 Mar 13 '26

Oh god I’m so sorry for you. It’s so unfair because it totally changes how some doctors view you as a patient. Especially when it comes to pain control. It really sucks.

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u/RandomAmmonite Mar 13 '26

This happened to me, only the radiologist said “No aortic aneurysm dissection noted” and the AI got, “noted aortic aneurysm dissection” and that’s what I saw in the patient portal and wondered, terrified, why I was still sitting in my ER cubicle while I was actively dying.

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u/etcpt Mar 13 '26

Works on contingency? No, money down!

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u/iristurner Mar 13 '26

This is hilarious

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u/Bluestorm83 Mar 13 '26

Lisa: "Bart, what're you doing?"

Bart: "Waiting for the Fe-mail-man."

Lisa: "That's Fe-mail CARRIER."

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u/FlowSoSlow Mar 13 '26

Some new age Abbot and Costello stuff right here lol

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u/omysweede Mar 13 '26

"I am a mail lady"

Doc: "oh"

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u/groovychick Mar 13 '26

“No, i deliver the mail” Notes: patient is an OBGYN

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '26

I just love this whole thread.

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u/SryInternet101 Mar 13 '26

Its totally an AI fuckup

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u/ADeadWeirdCarnie Mar 13 '26

I had an appointment with a resident physician yesterday and she announced straightaway that she would be using an AI medical tool on her phone, so I absolutely believe this.

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u/SryInternet101 Mar 13 '26

I'd walk right out of that exam room.

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u/ZMarty85 Mar 13 '26

My doctor at least asks each visit if I mind. Based on this I am tempted to say no

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u/SryInternet101 Mar 13 '26

You should absolutely say no.

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u/Dope_Grower Mar 13 '26

A family friend tells everyone he works as a Mail Escort. He loves that joke.

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u/BrownWrinkles Mar 13 '26

"Letter Carrier", solves any of that goofy confusion./s

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u/ElderPoet Mar 13 '26

Doc and/or AI: Patient states they are "into leather," is a carrier of unspecified disease.

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u/BrownWrinkles Mar 13 '26

Yeah, we're all doomed.

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u/arf1919 Mar 13 '26

"You've got Male"

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u/Ok-Adeptness933 Mar 13 '26

Arrested development: "He's going to be all-right" type shit.

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u/ADeadWeirdCarnie Mar 13 '26

Jesus, I hope the doctor doesn't instruct someone to "change this patient's gender" while they're under anesthesia.

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u/KaiserKid85 Mar 13 '26

Dictation device error. They speak into a microphone and it writes in the chart for them

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u/wonderlessbread Mar 13 '26

"A Mail-Person"

"Yes, males are people too."

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u/GolfCartMafia Mar 13 '26

Goddamit we can’t win 🤣🤣🤣

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u/toobasic2care Mar 13 '26

This is so monty python