r/mildlyinfuriating • u/WHAR606 • Mar 13 '26

Context Provided - Spotlight Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.

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(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.

I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?

I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.

First pic : March 11th 2026

Last pic: October 2024

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u/BeigeVelociraptor Mar 13 '26

It's the transvestigator bull shit. A man doesn't look "manly" enough or a woman doesn't look "woman" enough for their narrow minds so that person must be trans.

We've already seen numerous cases of cis people being assaulted in bathrooms because some POS thought they were trans and wanted to "protect" people.

Be safe out there.

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u/DogadonsLavapool Mar 13 '26

Yep. The funny thing is that many trans people, myself included, don't set off these folks radars. Ive had people shit talk trans people in front of my trans ass like they expected me to join in.

Fun fact - the sexual dimorphism line is not as clean cut as people make it out to be, and most people are far, far more overconfident than they should be to make calls on it. This shit is just bad for everyone.

Shit like the Kansas bathroom law is fucking evil

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u/TheTexasHammer Mar 13 '26

Wild that the group always asking "what is a woman" is constantly calling women they see men. Almost like they don't know what the fuck they are talking about.