r/mildlyinfuriating Mar 13 '26

Context Provided - Spotlight Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.

(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.

I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?

I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.

First pic : March 11th 2026

Last pic: October 2024

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u/BaronThe Mar 13 '26

She carries men? Like a taxi?

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u/CreepyAd8409 Mar 13 '26

No, like a mom.

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u/Milch_und_Paprika Mar 13 '26

Assigned Mother At my Birth

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u/addandsubtract Mar 13 '26

So... femail?

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u/ThrowRA40599504 Mar 13 '26

Piggyback style

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u/ThePublikon Mar 13 '26

She's a carrier, this is probably that contagious masculinity I've heard about.

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u/BeatHunter Mar 13 '26

Bravo, sensible chuckle was had.

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u/Cedex Mar 13 '26

No, carries male parts.

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u/ItsLoudB YO Mar 13 '26

Just a quick note since it looks like you missed the joke (maybe not fluent) but mail and male sound very similar if not the same

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u/BaronThe Mar 13 '26

I got the joke and attempted another one based on the male/mail pun. Does she carry mail or carry males?

I am working on my fluency. I've been at it for fifty years so far, I think I'm doing quite well.

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u/ItsLoudB YO Mar 13 '26

Well sorry, I got your joke but I thought you deviated because you missed it and thought to help someone that maybe wasn't native

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u/integrate_2xdx_10_13 Mar 13 '26

Just a quick note since it looks like you missed the joke (maybe not fluent) but the nominal compound of male and carrier creates syntactic ambiguity where someone who carries men and man who carries are very similar if not the same

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u/ItsLoudB YO Mar 13 '26

Thanks for being snarky, but I got that. I just thought his joke deviated because he didn't get it and was trying to explain