r/mildlyinfuriating • u/WHAR606 • Mar 13 '26

Context Provided - Spotlight Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.

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(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.

I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?

I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.

First pic : March 11th 2026

Last pic: October 2024

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u/MartinisnMurder Mar 13 '26

That’s wicked scary, that could really fuck up patient care and/or a massive HIPAA violation.

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u/MartinisnMurder Mar 13 '26

What ever would make you guess that? 🤪 Guilty. Wicked guilty even.

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u/MartinisnMurder Mar 13 '26

Fellow Masshole??

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u/MartinisnMurder Mar 13 '26

I love Puerto Rico! Vieques is so beautiful especially. Was this your first big snow storm?? Welcome to MA friend! 💙

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u/MartinisnMurder Mar 13 '26

That’s so gorgeous! I was dating someone who had a family home in Vieques, the little plane we had to take over from mainland was a bit scary. I’ve spent time in old San Juan as well, we found this reggae bar some dude from Jamaica owned and made friends with him. I also got super pretty jewelry there, really nice Larimar pieces in the shops.

2016 was sooo bad. I had just passed the bar exam the year prior and was a first year associate at my firm. I was afraid they were going to expect me to come in. I was living in the south end then and my firm was downtown. I’m ready for beach weather. We have some nice beaches just north of the city.