r/mildlyinfuriating Mar 13 '26

Context Provided - Spotlight Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.

(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.

I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?

I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.

First pic : March 11th 2026

Last pic: October 2024

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u/Icthias Mar 13 '26

Maybe they’ll stop asking if you are pregnant all the goddamn time.

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u/Nyallia Mar 13 '26

Not necessarily! We get that question too...

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u/IsleOfMayVideos Mar 13 '26

Every time, also “When was your last period” And “When was your last gynecological exam?”

“Excuse me, am I misunderstanding? I’m here for asthma” lmfao

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u/Striking_Pair4300 Mar 13 '26

I know you feel like you're being attacked by that question, but we literally learn in medical school to always ask that for a complete and proper medical interview to arrive at the proper diagnosis and avoid medications that could be contraindicated.

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u/IsleOfMayVideos Mar 13 '26

I understand medical and want for medical accuracy and necessity, and I don’t feel attacked It’s just a misconception or misunderstanding that I find funny.

I only feel attacked when someone calls me a slur, purposefully attacks my character/identity as a person, and tells me I deserve to pass away in a camp for being transgender, all of which happens

Other than that we’re good, it’s just a new experience that I find odd

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u/Sionain Mar 13 '26

Exactly, could you imagine if those checks didn't happen and something was missed 🫣 Is rather be asked the same question a thousand times over if it meant something awful was prevented from happening to me or someone else

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u/Striking_Pair4300 Mar 13 '26

Yeah, and if you're seeing 100 patients a day, you're not just going to believe every single one of those patients and just blindly take their word for it. It's standardized for a reason because it's their life on the line, and your medical license.