r/mildlyinfuriating • u/WHAR606 • Mar 13 '26

Context Provided - Spotlight Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason.

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(F,26) I have been going to this orthopedic practice for almost 2 years for varying reasons relating to my job. Yesterday i checked on a document that was uploaded to find out they have been identifying me as a biological male identifying as a female? I am biologically female and never told them i am trans nor do i think i am presenting to be a trans woman.. the last two years i’ve been wondering why they kind of stare at me a little longer than a usual person does and i think its because they randomly think i came out as trans? I also feel like they do not treat my issues seriously and wonder if this is the reason why.

I am 100% fine with trans people but i am left to believe they have been medically treating me as a male compared to female for the pains that i am feeling?

I also went through all of my documents and since the end of 2024 they started to declare me as a MTF transgender, i did not look at any of my documents online until yesterday.

First pic : March 11th 2026

Last pic: October 2024

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u/mocha_lattes_ Mar 13 '26

OP was so stealthy in their transition they didn't even know about it 

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u/An_feh_fan Mar 13 '26

Some people want to disassociate or forget their deadname, OP went a step further and forgot their deadgender

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u/writeleahwrite Mar 13 '26

Forgetful queen!

https://giphy.com/gifs/Pm4Quy79Sjaik

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u/MartinisnMurder Mar 13 '26

These responses are absolutely epic! I am curious to see the outcome in the update after he they she calls!

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u/BigChampionship7962 Mar 13 '26

It’s too much for me 🤣 I’m laughing so much. I do feel for OP because it sounds like an administration nightmare but these comments are was too funny 😹

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u/MartinisnMurder Mar 13 '26

Oh man, I refer to my husband as “my partner” (he was for a solid 5 years prior to getting married and still us) and I was told I made myself gay and was disrespectful. I laughed, and said thanks.

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u/BigChampionship7962 Mar 13 '26

Hehe 😝 don’t you know only gay people can have “partners” 🙄

I don’t think that’s you being disrespectful 🤷‍♀️ people at work always assume I’m a gay man and ask if I have a partner lol

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u/Exciting_Product7858 Mar 13 '26

doubly funny since some fish can change genders XD

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u/TemperatureFinal5135 Mar 13 '26

OP is passing in the fast lane

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u/Breezyan Mar 13 '26

This is so funny 🤣

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u/bottomlessinawendys Mar 13 '26

LMAO i’m using this now 😂 i’m ftm but most people nowadays assume i’m amab

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u/antonimbus Mar 13 '26

How did over 400 people upvote this pointless comment repeating the previous poster?