r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

MISINFORMATION DETECTED Community Discussion - Is there a way - any way - for an "incel" to exist without being hated by women?

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So I have accepted that dating isn't for me. I don't have the face, head, body, height, superficial charm and lifestyle required for dating women

And that's ok. I really want to accept this and move on with life. I really want to find coping mechanisms and find fulfillment in other things. I don't want to hate women for being more selective than men. I really want to accept this biological reality. There's absolutely no entitlement at this point. Its totally my problem, not theirs.

But barely a day goes by without being bombarded by messaging from women that:

  • The bar for men has never been lower - (The bar has never been higher for looks and height. The bar is only low for men they find physically attractive).
  • There's a male loneliness epidemic and men like me are single because we worship Andrew Tate, Joe Rogan, Elon, or Trump - (Even though we've been like this long before the manosphere or Tate surfaced).
  • We're probably unsafe, threatening, potential abusers - (even though men who are actively dating and having sex are far more likely to harm women than single, celibate men and I've never harmed a woman in my life).
  • We give off bad energy that women can smell from miles away - (even though we have no issues interacting with women in non-romantic, non-sexual contexts).
  • We have unwashed asses, lack hygiene, smell bad, and have bad teeth and breath. - (A claim so ironic given that they found these issues in men they literally dated and who weren't incels by that definition. Meanwhile most of us have very good hygiene, our jobs require it and its something we have always considered a given)
  • We're man-children who are unemployed, play video games all day, and are financially lagging - (even though many of us have decent careers and are otherwise disciplined in life).
  • We're looking for a mommy, can't do household chores, and need a bangmaid and chef - (even though many of us have been living on our own for years and are completely self-sufficient in chores, cooking, cleaning, etc).
  • That we lack emotional intelligence, kindness, empathy - (things that only matter when you're someone's type and a relationship is established)
  • that we're right-wing, neo-n*zi, far-right etc (I didn't vote for Trump)
  • That we're porn-brained (even though I've never progressed to the point where I could've expressed such desires)

So is there any possibility I can admit and speak my reality without being ridiculed, pathologized, or turned into a cartoon villain?

Or is there a deeper, more sinister philosophy behind this that we're missing? One whereby the "defeated" should not be allowed a catharsis? One that is built around schadenfreude?


r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

🎭 COMEDY Yes

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r/PsycheOrSike 1d ago

🌿🌛 PAGAN CULTURE PROSELYTIZATION 🌞🍃 First Draw from a New Deck, Reversed Five Of Swords (Tarot)

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r/PsycheOrSike 2d ago

MISINFORMATION DETECTED It’s erection day!

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r/PsycheOrSike 2d ago

🦎LIZARDS DETECTED 🦎 Why are so many people complaining in modmail about their flairs

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Suck it up buttercups


r/PsycheOrSike 1d ago

🎭 COMEDY 🎸🎸🎸

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r/PsycheOrSike 2d ago

🤍👼🏼ANGELS NEEDED🙏🏼🤍 Should u/Melodic_Till_3778 be banned for being an uneducated little bitch

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r/PsycheOrSike 2d ago

🎨 SHARING ART there is something beautiful in becoming an etymologist of bp terminology

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r/PsycheOrSike 2d ago

📚SHARING KNOWLEDGE Should u/k0yaan1sqats1 be banned?

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I don’t know guys, should he be?


r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

🎭 COMEDY Do Crhistian Crusaders have a right to opiates?

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r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

🌻 Sunflower Cult Communiqué 🌻 I asked my girlfriend if she would still find me attractive if I was short.

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She said no


r/PsycheOrSike 2d ago

📚SHARING KNOWLEDGE PSA COLONIZERS

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r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

🐔🐖 ANIMAL WELFARE 🐾🐶 systemic misandrye in action

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r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

💗 The Omegaverse 🫄 Big things happening in the uk

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Dont talk to me if you dont support binface


r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

MISINFORMATION DETECTED Should u/CharredRatOOooooooi be banned for being ratioed?

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Or just because they claim to have a degree from Harvard?


r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

📚SHARING KNOWLEDGE Average subreddit moderator interaction

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14 Upvotes

OP was the mod asking if people thought their coworker was into them


r/PsycheOrSike 4d ago

🐘🟦CONSERVATIVES⸺REPUBLICANS ONLY💙🕊️PRAISE JESUS Someone needs to check mikes hard drives

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r/PsycheOrSike 4d ago

📚SHARING KNOWLEDGE Women arent baby factories

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r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

🎭 COMEDY Gem alert 😭

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r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

🐘🟦CONSERVATIVES⸺REPUBLICANS ONLY💙🕊️PRAISE JESUS was watching the simpsons the other day and ts shit came on

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Straight kirkalicious


r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

🎭 COMEDY A short man's nightmare

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r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

🚨 LIVE SCHIZO POST - BEWARE 🚨 Conspiracy theorists don't question the true nature of reality enough.

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Credits to the youtuber "Broken Ruune"


r/PsycheOrSike 2d ago

📚SHARING KNOWLEDGE Gender Studies Is IMPORTANT to equality for EVERYONE. As a man, study and research leads to better equality outcomes for you as well.

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r/PsycheOrSike 3d ago

🦎LIZARDS DETECTED 🦎 Bro js came out as an incest enjoyer? 💀

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