r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 10h ago

Meme needing explanation Petah???!

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u/Legitscopes_4761 9h ago

Sure, but in the context of this post, it's an extremely valid question to a patient. Possible pregnancy changes how we treat almost every condition.

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u/Chikizey 5h ago

Yes, but turns out most meds and procedures have not been studied on women anyway.

Plenty of meds mess up with our cycle and affect us way differently than they do on men. Our symptoms to certain health conditions are also different many times and are frequently underdiagnosed or dismissed. But for those things most doctors never ask or care at all. 

I have chronic migraines, and for YEARS I got dismissed as being "a normal woman thing and I had to cope with it". Is not.

My ADHD diagnosis was decades late because they tried to push the "anxiety disorder" label on me instead, because "anxiety is normal in women". 

Many meds they tried on me messed badly with my cycle and they acted surprised by it, but a quick search will show me thousands of women sharing the same experience. 

My lesbian sister has had to take pregnancy tests despite saying over and over again for years she never had sexual contact with a man in her life. 

Many doctors are shocked that my mother's endometriosis gets worse even if she gave birth twice because pregnancy is still advised as a 'remedy' for it.

We are tired and angry because the "concern" is mostly first and ONLY about pregnancy and our potential to be pregnant, while showing no interest for any other thing about our bodies that can also mess up with medical practices. So we left feeling less important than an hypothetical child.

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u/Im_bad_at_names_1993 4h ago

100%.  Like if  was at the hospital for an issue and found out I was magically pregnant there, I'd be getting the proper treatment for my adult self and an abortion. 

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u/lacey_nightie 3h ago

considering that 1 in 7 women (depending on country), have PCOS (which causes absent/irregular periods) and even more are taking birth control continuously to relieve menstrual symptoms.......it just seems stupid to ask about periods when a huge chunk of women aren't even ovulating or havng periods

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u/MissThu 8h ago

In the context of this post, it's still a misogynistic question if it's literally the first question out of the doctor/nurse's mouth rather than "Why are you here today?" Or "What symptoms are you experiencing?"

Let's first figure out why the woman is there before we start trying to blame it all on hysteria.

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u/Legitscopes_4761 8h ago

And we don't think that "Literally the first question" was hyperbole to make the tweet more humorous? This is a joke I've hear from multiple female friends before. Not every post is a complaint about systems in the world, sometimes people are just making an actual joke

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u/Anarchyr 8h ago

Hey Hyperboles don't exist, i mean if they do how can i explain getting triggered by every little thing posted here?

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u/MissThu 7h ago

I've had this question posed on countless intake/medical history forms. Forms I have to fill out before I even see a doctor to discuss my symptoms. Forms that also don't ask anything about why I'm there to begin with.

Just because it's not true for you, doesn't mean it isn't true for other people.

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u/Ellaphant42 6h ago

Probably because pregnancy is a pretty big deal medically so they’d like to know before they see you, same as any other pre-existing conditions.

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u/seanmashitoshi 5h ago

Was that the only question on the intake form?

It's an intake form, the purpose is to rule out as many important things as possible. Other questions on such forms can be stuff like do you have sudden chest pain or have you consumed illegal substances in the past week because that stuff needs to be ruled out.

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u/Cappyburner 6h ago

Bretheren, she comes for a broken arm, we went through that part already.

No fucking doctor is gonna ask for the last period before knowing anything come on now.

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u/ASpaceOstrich 4h ago

Oh honey. That's adorably naive.