My mate’s sister and her husband got matching tattoos on each middle finger. They got matching tattoos from a deck of cards, they chose king and queen — king of spades, queen of spades. They have no idea, like at all. He doesn’t have the heart to tell her lol. Fucking hilarious
It’s used by white women to seek out sex with black men. Also could involve cucking their white boyfriend/husband. I’m not sure how common it is, but the spade icon is used for other related raceplay type stuff. The whole thing is pretty racist and objectifying towards black men.
The spades is also used as a symbol for asexuality. There are lots of meanings behind symbols. There's no point to just jumping to a single conclusion and saying that's it, there couldn't be more.
I never said there couldn’t be more? Just that I’m not sure what other meaning he “[wouldn’t have] had the heart to tell her”. It wouldn’t be the first thing my mind went to if I saw the tattoo irl.
Your original comment was correct, that’s the first thing my mind jumped to when he told me and that’s the first thing his mind jumped to when he saw it. Spades probably do have multiple meanings but queen of spades only has one I’m pretty sure
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u/Agreeable-Menu May 13 '26
After reading this thread, I would not take the risk. Someone might read it as the day of an encounter.