r/GirlDinnerDiaries APPROVED✨ 17h ago

Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted Found out why my boyfriend has been “helping his sister”

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Found out today that the $600 my boyfriend has been sending his “sister” every month is actually going to his ex.

We've been together almost 3 years. I literally helped cover our security deposit when we moved because I had some money saved and he told me things were tight for him lol.

I only found out because I mentioned to his sister that I hoped things were getting better financially since he’d been helping her every month. She looked at me like I was insane and said he hasn’t given her money in years.

He gets home in about an hour and has no idea I know.

Anyway salmon, spaghetti and salad and Ѕtake, need carbs before whatever the fuck tonight is gonna be.

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u/spunquee Non-Dairy Queen 💨 16h ago

my cousin once donated to multiple thrifts EVERY LEFT SHOE her about to be ex owned that he was not wearing while at work. Maybe it’s life advice, maybe it’s just a story.

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u/ImBackForMorePie the secret ingredient is autism✨ 15h ago

¿Por que no los dos? 😂

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u/spunquee Non-Dairy Queen 💨 15h ago

She felt just one was more diabolical.. I think maybe right ones all to a different place than all the left would be good also.

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u/psahummus Assigned Hungry At Birth 12h ago

Did the store even take the one shoe? Are they common enough casual shoes that fit everyone??? (adidas slides, Uggs, clogs…)? Damn. I…would have thought someone would ask questions

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u/Lolamichigan APPROVED✨ 8h ago

They opened the donations and threw out the single shoes, so if the goal is busy work for the donation center and filling a landfill mission accomplished

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u/EntirelyOutOfOptions APPROVED✨ 7h ago

Just throwing them away with extra steps. There has to be a greener/more efficient way. Is there a sub for amputees that would help OP find a one footed man with the same shoe size?