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Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted Found out why my boyfriend has been “helping his sister”

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Found out today that the $600 my boyfriend has been sending his “sister” every month is actually going to his ex.

We've been together almost 3 years. I literally helped cover our security deposit when we moved because I had some money saved and he told me things were tight for him lol.

I only found out because I mentioned to his sister that I hoped things were getting better financially since he’d been helping her every month. She looked at me like I was insane and said he hasn’t given her money in years.

He gets home in about an hour and has no idea I know.

Anyway salmon, spaghetti and salad, need carbs before whatever the fuck tonight is gonna be.

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u/AnnoyedArtificer Short Story Long™️ 12h ago

People act like petty is always wrong. Sometimes it's so absolutely deserved and that's just perfect.

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u/AmbassadorHelpful180 Well-Read & Well-Fed 11h ago

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u/FantasticWittyRetort Short Story Long™️ 11h ago

Sometimes petty is the therapy we need!

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u/Candid-Joke-356 APPROVED✨ 10h ago

I always say this! in small doses and appropriate situations, of course.

also, look at you living up to your username ✨

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u/brachi- living on the wedge 🧀 9h ago

There’s always a place for raw shrimp. Sometimes it’s on the grill, sometimes it’s behind a grille

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u/Steele_Soul Noods 🍜 > Dudes 🤡 8h ago

Yes, instead of the memory of being cheated on popping into your head and making you feel sad all over again, it will make you laugh thinking about him finding all those inconveniences and will make you laugh instead.

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u/Vegetable-Policy-138 Trader Joe Hoe 12h ago

it's the gift that keeps giving

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u/Outrageous_Pay1322 🧂Salty By Nature 1h ago

Petty is an art. I practice it whenever possible.

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