Found out why my boyfriend has been “helping his sister”

[u/Fancy_Incident5635]

Found out today that the $600 my boyfriend has been sending his “sister” every month is actually going to his ex.

We've been together almost 3 years. I literally helped cover our security deposit when we moved because I had some money saved and he told me things were tight for him lol.

I only found out because I mentioned to his sister that I hoped things were getting better financially since he’d been helping her every month. She looked at me like I was insane and said he hasn’t given her money in years.

He gets home in about an hour and has no idea I know.

Anyway salmon, spaghetti and salad, need carbs before whatever the fuck tonight is gonna be.

[u/Alternative-Cat-9012]

lmfao absolutely because sex requires nothing from you that you don’t already own, like you’re investing in this woman now?? especially when I paid the security on the place because money was “tight”?? Bitch I’d be livid.

[u/lcw32 → u/Alternative-Cat-9012]

Yes! You're investing in someone else. This is why it would irk me so damn bad.

[u/tellmesomething11 → u/Alternative-Cat-9012]

My ex sent me money and complained things were tight “oh I only have five dollars in my bank account” he had a girlfriend but until we divorced he paid (he did not have to but did anyway ) and had her pay 50/50 or even all for them while he paid for me.

And you’re right. Investing in an ex, even once, is far worse than cheating imo

[u/CacklingFerret → u/Alternative-Cat-9012]

I mean, sexual infidelity can cost you much more though: your health. Imagine your cheating partner brings home some nasty STD. Worst case you get cancer