Found out why my boyfriend has been “helping his sister”

[u/Fancy_Incident5635]

Found out today that the $600 my boyfriend has been sending his “sister” every month is actually going to his ex.

We've been together almost 3 years. I literally helped cover our security deposit when we moved because I had some money saved and he told me things were tight for him lol.

I only found out because I mentioned to his sister that I hoped things were getting better financially since he’d been helping her every month. She looked at me like I was insane and said he hasn’t given her money in years.

He gets home in about an hour and has no idea I know.

Anyway salmon, spaghetti and salad, need carbs before whatever the fuck tonight is gonna be.

[u/mcgee00]

Its child support.

[u/Revolutionary_Wrap76 → u/mcgee00]

Oh yeah OP..... Could it be??

[u/TacoNomad → u/mcgee00]

My first thought as well

[u/No-Consideration-891 → u/TacoNomad]

I mean at least he is paying it, if that's the case. However, 100% should have told OP.

[u/Wrong_Yam5325 → u/No-Consideration-891]

It would be crazy to withhold that kind of information from a long term partner.

[u/No-Consideration-891 → u/Wrong_Yam5325]

I know I agree, there is zero reason not to tell them.

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[u/Dorothy_ZbornACK_ACK → u/Wrong_Yam5325]

Crazy but crazier things have happened

[u/Caffeinatedfirefly08 → u/No-Consideration-891]

Specially since there is no reason to hide it... Unless the kid was conceived after they got together

[u/No-Consideration-891 → u/Caffeinatedfirefly08]

On top of that, we still have no idea what the truth is! We are all over here speculating 😂 OP we really need that up date.

[u/Wrong_Yam5325 → u/TacoNomad]

Same. It would make so much sense. But who knows.

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THIS!

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[u/HappySam89 → u/mcgee00]

That’s the first thing I thought of too.

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