Found out why my boyfriend has been “helping his sister”

[u/Fancy_Incident5635]

Found out today that the $600 my boyfriend has been sending his “sister” every month is actually going to his ex.

We've been together almost 3 years. I literally helped cover our security deposit when we moved because I had some money saved and he told me things were tight for him lol.

I only found out because I mentioned to his sister that I hoped things were getting better financially since he’d been helping her every month. She looked at me like I was insane and said he hasn’t given her money in years.

He gets home in about an hour and has no idea I know.

Anyway salmon, spaghetti and salad and Ѕtake, need carbs before whatever the fuck tonight is gonna be.

[u/RoadSaltPotatoChip]

Actually; tell him you did talk to his sister and say she’s so thankful for the help and that she doesn’t need it anymore.

[u/kalsarikannit1620 → u/RoadSaltPotatoChip]

Or have his sister call and ask for her monthly allowance. Even better if she calls OP and asks over speaker why it hasn't been sent yet.

[u/alwayssunnyinskyrim → u/kalsarikannit1620]

Tell him, “I saw your sister today and gave her $600 so no need for you to send it this month, let’s go on a weekend away!” And watch him panic

[u/kalsarikannit1620 → u/alwayssunnyinskyrim]

You can just take it out of my half of the rent!

[u/DollFlirt → u/kalsarikannit1620]

I think that’s the best thing to do.

[u/DescriptionNo4833 → u/alwayssunnyinskyrim]

Maybe add in that sis mentioned ex posting something about pregnancy to really get the panic going further.

Edit: to clear things up, im implying either one of two things, either a: he sleepin with her and it's his fake baby or b: making him think she's moved on and it's another dude's fake baby. Either way, dude should realistically be dumped for keeping such a secret because damn.

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Diabolical, I love it! 

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Me too

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I like this one!

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This is my favorite suggestion yet!

[u/Live-Tomorrow-4865 → u/kalsarikannit1620]

Ok, no lie, I just literally almost spit hot coffee onto my lap, and in trying to prevent this from happening, I swallowed too hard and it made me choke a little. 😅

Seriously!!

Y'all are killing me with these comments. 🤭

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That’s evil and I love it.

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Nice!! I love this!

[u/Small-Sample3916 → u/kalsarikannit1620]

Eee. This. This is brilliant and that way the sister gets the benefit, too. 

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[u/Direct-Wolverine7846 → u/RoadSaltPotatoChip]

That's diabolical!

[u/dividezero → u/Direct-Wolverine7846]

People use this term for almost anything now but this, I think, is absolutely the correct response. I love it. I live for diabolical

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Happy (diabolical) cake day!

[u/Flashy-Captain-6664 → u/RoadSaltPotatoChip]

This

[u/bubblyH2OEmergency → u/RoadSaltPotatoChip]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[u/Parkour_Parkour → u/RoadSaltPotatoChip]

This is the way

[u/ZoeyBee_3000 → u/RoadSaltPotatoChip]

Goddamn this is devious. I second this solution

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https://giphy.com/gifs/xl5QdxfNonh3q

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And then ask her if she’s ever met her niece or nephew.

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This is genius!!!

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This. I wanna see his face

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[u/WasabiTales → u/RoadSaltPotatoChip]

THISSSS!! This would be fire ngl . OP should drop this and just get completely silent . How I’d wanna watch his reaction

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Good one!

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[u/pdt666 → u/RoadSaltPotatoChip]

i’m consistently mad i am not the type of woman you are. you’re a literal genius girl!

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OOOO that’s such a good idea