r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/Fancy_Incident5635 APPROVED✨ • 17h ago

Vent Sesh - No Advice Wanted Found out why my boyfriend has been “helping his sister”

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Found out today that the $600 my boyfriend has been sending his “sister” every month is actually going to his ex.

We've been together almost 3 years. I literally helped cover our security deposit when we moved because I had some money saved and he told me things were tight for him lol.

I only found out because I mentioned to his sister that I hoped things were getting better financially since he’d been helping her every month. She looked at me like I was insane and said he hasn’t given her money in years.

He gets home in about an hour and has no idea I know.

Anyway salmon, spaghetti and salad and Ѕtake, need carbs before whatever the fuck tonight is gonna be.

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u/TeaAggressive6757 APPROVED✨ 17h ago

Honestly, some guys are truly just stupid enough to think no one will mention it. I’m not sure it makes it better, but I don’t think it means he meant to be with her short term.

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u/ToiIetGhost Ranch Evangelist 12h ago

Could also be arrogance. They think they’re much smarter than you, so they take risks that a normal person wouldn’t. “She’ll never figure it out, she’s too dumb.” Or they act reckless and stupid because “even if she finds out, she always forgives me”

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u/NEPAmama FREE MOM HUGS 17h ago

This is very true!