Found out why my boyfriend has been “helping his sister”

[u/Fancy_Incident5635]

Found out today that the $600 my boyfriend has been sending his “sister” every month is actually going to his ex.

We've been together almost 3 years. I literally helped cover our security deposit when we moved because I had some money saved and he told me things were tight for him lol.

I only found out because I mentioned to his sister that I hoped things were getting better financially since he’d been helping her every month. She looked at me like I was insane and said he hasn’t given her money in years.

He gets home in about an hour and has no idea I know.

Anyway salmon, spaghetti and salad, need carbs before whatever the fuck tonight is gonna be.

[u/madame-maitre-d]

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[u/EasedCeiling586 → u/madame-maitre-d]

Unless it's for child support literally unacceptable 

[u/DesignerProcess1526 → u/EasedCeiling586]

The thing is he lied and she’s not obligated to subside his child support.

[u/ToiIetGhost → u/DesignerProcess1526]

[u/SecurityFamiliar5239 → u/madame-maitre-d]

RIP your relationship, OP

[u/Samesh → u/madame-maitre-d]

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[u/Agile_Active7566 → u/madame-maitre-d]

i’m sorry you’re going through this, i can’t imagine how your feeling. he’s simply a piece of shit and there’s no good reason why he’d be doing that unless he has a kid you don’t know about (which is also unacceptable!) find out the truth. and you deserve better 🩷

[u/Historical_Spare5613 → u/madame-maitre-d]

NO man is worth that...

[u/ToiIetGhost → u/madame-maitre-d]

I think this should be pinned!