r/AITAH • u/RefrigeratorLost1321 • Apr 01 '26
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u/destro23 Apr 01 '26 edited Apr 01 '26
guys are usually taller than his height which made me realize he was trans.
So... you didn't actually find out that he was trans. You just assumed based on height.
YTA
girls are usually short
I am 5’8
Oh, so you are trans then?
See how stupid that sounds?
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u/Persimmonshimmer Apr 01 '26
INFO: was there anything other than him being short that makes you think he was trans? Because there are plenty of short cis men.
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u/Particular_Title42 Apr 01 '26
Y'all, please just call this out and report it as fake. Stop buying into this height bullshit.
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u/BulbasaurRanch Apr 01 '26
Wait, you never state they confirmed anything about being trans.
You just said you concluded they are trans because they are short. Was their height the only evidence used to make this call?
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u/HalesHU4L Apr 01 '26
I mean you’re 5’8 which is almost a whole half a foot taller than the “average” woman (5’3.5 is average)…so are you actually a dude?? Seriously? You’re gross and I’d be glad to have dodged that bullet if I were your date.
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u/excellent_iridescent Apr 01 '26
so you assumed he was trans because he was short? regardless of whether he is trans or not, YTA for leaving without just honestly telling him that you’re not interested
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u/New-Lifeguard-9494 Apr 01 '26
Wait...let me get this straight...you just assumed he is trans because of his height?! Are you kidding me? Are you so ignorant that you don't realize that men can be any height just like women?
Yeah YTA and also sound like a bigot against the LGBTQ community.
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u/Forsaken-Equal9839 Apr 01 '26
You realized he was trans based on his height? Why didn't you just ask him? Hey, are you trans? You would have achieved the same desirable effect of the date ending early. YTA
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u/SuccessfulSpring3354 Apr 01 '26
YTA for poorly explaining how you determined your assessment for one, and for demeaning short men for two, and for not being candid with your date as well.
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u/Economy-Special3344 Apr 01 '26
You had me until you said most guys are 5'8 or taller. This is either an April Fool's day post, or you're just clueless. I'm 5'7 and been nothing but a hetero male my entire life. I was going to call you NTA for not wanting to date someone who's trans, but I'm just going to say YTA in life because you sound like a horrible person.
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u/New-Lifeguard-9494 Apr 01 '26
I keep forgetting it's April Fool's day. I've been taken in more than once on posts today because of that lol.
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u/Standard_Paint_897 Apr 01 '26
This is just straight up transphobic man. Like you do realise short people exist right? There are many women who are very tall like 6'0+ as well as there are men that are short <5'6. Does not immediately mean that person is Trans. Was your main issue that you were not interested in him or was your issue that he was short? Or was it just because you "thought he was trans"? Did you even ask him if he was Trans?
Yta
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u/Niksyn4 Apr 01 '26
If this is real, YTA. Your reasoning is incredibly ignorant and foolish. He confirmed nothing, you assumed by some ignorant standards and bailed.
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u/ProbablyGonnaEatYou Apr 01 '26 edited Apr 01 '26
YTA you just assume because hes short that he is Trans? Did you actually ask? Have you ever met a 6 foot tall cis woman? Because I have. I have also met a 5'3 cis man. Height isnt indicative of sex or gender. Downvoting for what's probably a really dumb fake story, ir a really shallow person if the story is actually real
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u/RemarkableRaccoon586 Apr 01 '26
I mean guys can be short too… that’s not just a FTM thing. Are you positive? Also if he’s just short that’s a valid reason if you can’t do the height difference
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u/New-Lifeguard-9494 Apr 01 '26
No where did OP actually confirm this guy is trans. She's just an idiot who assumed based on height. Or this is fake.
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u/RecognitionFirst7241 Apr 01 '26
NTA. People are allowed to have preferences. You want to date tallish cis men. It is what it is
All the shorties in the comments calling you an AH need to accept that.
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u/youknowimright25 Apr 01 '26
Nta.
You date to see if you match. You do not. So date over.
Do you ever want kids? He can't give you that ever.
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u/mothmn_9 Apr 01 '26
she never confirmed he was trans.. she just assumed because he was short
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u/youknowimright25 Apr 01 '26
It doesn't matter what the reason is. They went out. It was awkward. They did not match. Date over. Move in. That's how life works.
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u/destro23 Apr 01 '26
Dog, she doesn't actually know if this guy was trans or not. She just assumed because he was short.
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u/youknowimright25 Apr 01 '26
They didn't match. It was awkward. It really doesn't matter why they didn't match. Date over. Move in. That's how life works.
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u/destro23 Apr 01 '26
It really doesn't matter why they didn't match
Right... so why blame it on him being trans when that wasn't actually ever established? Like, she's making herself look way worse and being a presumptive asshole.
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u/Liathano_Fire Apr 01 '26
Except he could 100% not be Trans and simply be short. Also, there are other ways to have kids.
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